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Parents are Still the Best Teachers

Are you at your wit’s end when helping your child with their homework and you just end up fighting? You’re not alone, parents have often reported experiencing this with their child. But the good news is there are ways and method to teach them. It all depends on the tutor’s patience and method.

As a parent you can do it. Let’s face it, not everyone can afford a tutor. Every parent though can help her child with his lesson. All it takes is a little patience and the right technique.

  • Have a regular study time – a scheduled time for home-work and reviewing each day will help establish study as a regular part of child’s day. With this routine, parents and tutors will find it easier to persuade the child to begin his lesson since he knows it is time to “work”. Don’t wait for your child to be in the right mood. You’ll never get started if you do so.
  • Study all subjects – although subject with homework or scheduled quizzes would be priority, it is good to allot certain time to review other subjects as well. Learning must be reinforced or repeated for it to be meaningful to a child.
  • Adapt the study schedules to your child’s personality, needs and approach learning. If he’s the type who needs to warm-up, start with easy subjects first and vice versa. It is usually better to tackle a child’s favorite subjects toward the end of the session, this way he still have something to look forward to. Save the best for the last.
  • Keep it an hour at most. An hour would usually suffice for graders. But parents should adjust accordingly depending on whether the child seems restless or bored, or if he shows sustained interest.
  • Use memory aids. Memorizing facts, formulas, history dates and poems can be made easier with the use of acrostics, mnemonics, and codes. Another learning technique is analogy. Example, use song or movements for the musically-inclined and active child. Applying lessons to the particular experiences of the child and tapping his interests.

Quality time vs. Quantity time

Do you really know your child or you just thought you do?

Most working parents tried to spend quality time with their children to ease the guilt feeling of not always with them. But what is quality time really? Does it means spending two, three hours or the whole day in a week doing fun activities with them, but your mind is busy thinking of some assignments or tasks that need to be finished and submitted for tomorrow? You maybe physically present but mentally absent. Kids are very sensitive, they will feel your lack of interest. They can tell when your mind is somewhere else or when you’d rather be elsewhere.

To make your child like you, you should make an effort to know their interests, it’s the same as when you want to know a person you will try to find out all about that person, what are his/her likes, who are his/her friends, same thing with your children. When you have identified the activities that you can enjoy together, then you won’t hesitate to drop everything to spend time with your kids. Frequency also played a major role. Quality over quantity is not always true. With parenting, quality time should be frequent and habitual. How can you develop a close relationship with someone you hardly spend time with?

It requires more TIME to build an ideal relationship with your children. Making your bonding time special and memorable to your child is the best you can do if you are really short of time.

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